GUIDED: Why We All Need a Guide in the Bedroom
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Why Guidance Changes Everything
Most couples want deeper connection, but routine and distraction get in the way. GUIDED reveals why following a trusted voice can quiet your mind, deepen your presence, and unlock a more playful, adventurous sex life together.
What You'll Discover Inside
Practical, science-backed tools you can use tonight to create more presence, play, and passion.
Letting Go
The neuroscience behind letting go and enjoying the moment — how external direction calms your nervous system, quiets performance anxiety, and keeps you deeply present with your partner.
Building Trust
How guidance creates safety, trust, and heightened arousal — why feeling secure in your body and relationship opens the door to more adventurous, connected sex.
The Framework
Step-by-step frameworks for giving and receiving direction — so you always know what to say, how to move, and how to stay in sync without losing the spark.
About
My name is Scott Schwertly.
Scott Schwertly is the creator of the Coelle app and a leading voice in the Slow Sex and Guided Intimacy movement. Drawing on years of research into neuroscience, psychology, and sensual connection, he helps couples move beyond routine into deeper presence, play, and passion. Through his writing, speaking, and guided experiences, Scott’s mission is simple: to make every intimate moment unforgettable.
