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Most couples don't need more sex. They need one protected moment each week. The Sunday Night Reset is the ritual you didn't know you were missing.

There's a sleep hygiene principle that profoundly affects your sex life: your bedroom should be for sleep and sex only. No TV, work, phones, or meals. This isn't aesthetic preference—it's based on how your brain creates environmental associations. When the bedroom is reserved exclusively for rest and intimacy, both sleep quality and sexual connection improve dramatically.

There's an anatomical fact that explains why some women orgasm from penetration while most don't: the distance between the clitoris and vaginal opening. Research shows women whose clitoris is less than 2.5cm from the vaginal opening—about a thumb length—orgasm more frequently from penetration. For most women, this distance is larger, meaning penetration doesn't provide sufficient clitoral stimulation regardless of technique or position.

The Kama Sutra includes extensive attention to jewelry and adornment as functional elements in intimate choreography. Anklets mark rhythm, waist chains frame movement, necklaces guide touch. This isn't decoration—it's deliberate cultivation of presence and pleasure. Here's what modern couples can learn from ancient wisdom about adornment.

There's a belief that creates enormous pressure: you're responsible for "giving" your partner an orgasm. This framework is flawed and makes sex worse. Here's why each person is responsible for their own orgasm while being an enthusiastic collaborator in their partner's—and why this shift makes sex better for everyone.

There's an approach to masturbation that most people never consider: doing it mindfully, with attention to sensation, breath, and your body's responses. Emily Morse teaches mindful masturbation as a practice that changes how you experience pleasure and ultimately improves partnered sex.

There's an experience that sounds simultaneously appealing and terrifying: spending a weekend at a secluded Airbnb completely naked together. Here's what makes nude getaways transformative for couples—creating vulnerability, enabling deeper conversations, separating nudity from performance, and building intimacy in unexpected ways.

There's a term gaining attention in online sexuality communities: syntribation—masturbation through rubbing thighs together or using pressure without hands or toys. Here's what it is, why it develops as a preferred method for some women, and how it fits into conversations about female sexuality.

When it comes to deepening connection and enhancing closeness, sometimes the usual date nights and conversations just don’t cut it. We all want to feel more connected, more understood, and more in tune with our partner. That’s where relationship intimacy tools come in.

The Mia Malkova Headshot is a new mouth-orifice Fleshlight generating attention. But how do oral simulation toys fit into healthy couple sexuality? Here's an honest look at when mouth Fleshlights work well in relationships, when they create problems, and how to have the conversation with your partner.

There's a scenario that creates wildly different reactions: discovering your partner masturbating. Some couples find it exciting and arousing. Others experience hurt, betrayal, or anger. Here's why the same event creates such different responses and what your reaction reveals about your relationship dynamics.

There's a question that creates anxiety for many couples: how many orgasms are supposed to happen during sex? Here's what research shows about actual orgasm frequency, why the gender gap exists, and what really predicts sexual satisfaction beyond orgasm counts.

At the end of the day, intimacy apps are about more than just technology. They’re about creating space for connection, curiosity, and care. If you’ve been feeling stuck or distant, these apps offer a gentle nudge toward rediscovering what makes your relationship special.

Cock rings generate curiosity and confusion—what do they actually do, how do you use them safely, and are they worth trying? Here's honest, practical information about cock rings, including realistic benefits, safety considerations, and how to decide if they're right for you.

There's a topic that creates unnecessary shame in many marriages: masturbation. Is it okay when you're committed? What does it mean if your partner does? Sex-positive couples who've figured out healthy long-term sexuality have completely different approaches—they don't see masturbation as competition with partnered sex or as rejection.

There's a dynamic that creates quiet frustration in many marriages: one partner wants to explore sexually, and the other is content with familiar, straightforward sex. Here's how to understand what's really happening and navigate desire differences without creating defensiveness or resentment.

Doggy style appears constantly in porn and is positioned as a must-do position, but for many couples it feels physically awkward or uncomfortable in practice. Here's how to make doggy style actually feel good through modifications, angle adjustments, and techniques that work for real bodies.

There's a sexual phenomenon that generates enormous curiosity and misinformation: female ejaculation, or squirting. Here's what it actually is, what it feels like for women who experience it, whether all women can do it, and most importantly—whether it matters for sexual satisfaction.

There's a category of advice that shows up constantly: "spice up your relationship with a sexy date night!" But most ideas create awkwardness rather than intimacy. Here are five spicy date structures that actually build connection, anticipation, and genuine desire between partners.

There's a pattern I've noticed talking to hundreds of couples: people in their 20s are having more sex, but people in their 40s are having better sex. Here's why most people actually discover their sexuality in their 40s and why you shouldn't waste time mourning lost youth when you're actually entering your sexual prime.