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The Taoist practice of nine shallow thrusts followed by one deep produces something specific: the contrast amplifies sensation for both partners in ways that uniform deep thrusting can't. Here's the physiology, how to actually practice it, and the clitoral base stimulation element that most people don't know to add.

I recently signed up for FrolicMe's one-week trial at $6.75 to explore whether it might be a good fit for Brittney and me. FrolicMe positions itself in the "ethical porn" and "female-friendly" space, with a polished catalog that goes well beyond just video. After spending time with the platform, I came away genuinely impressed by the production quality and the breadth of content - but also reminded that, however thoughtfully it's made, porn still feels like porn.

Mantak Chia's Exercise 16 from The Multi-Orgasmic Man is one of the most detailed practices in the Taoist sexual health tradition. Here's an honest assessment of what the practice genuinely produces improved circulation, pelvic floor awareness, somatic development and where the enlargement claims go beyond what the clinical evidence supports.

I read Daniel Rose's The Sex God Method this past week and have an honest take: the core DEVI framework is genuinely useful for men who've been operating as passive lovers. Some of the framing is dated and occasionally misogynistic. Here's what it gets right, where I push back, and how it maps to the other intimacy work on this blog.