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Because Great Sex Isn’t Accidental.

Hi, I’m Scott Schwertly and I want to be your Sex and Intimacy Coach.

 

I work with individuals and couples who want more from their intimate lives — more connection, more confidence, more clarity, and more depth. Over the years, I’ve learned something important: most people aren’t struggling in the bedroom because they lack attraction or desire. They’re struggling because no one has ever shown them how to navigate intimacy with intention.

 

You can read books, listen to podcasts, try new techniques, or experiment with new experiences — but if the underlying patterns driving your intimacy don’t change, nothing truly changes. If communication feels awkward, if desire feels inconsistent, if confidence comes and goes, or if intimacy has started to feel predictable, it’s not a chemistry issue. It’s a clarity issue.

 

Sex and intimacy coaching is where we slow down and identify what’s actually happening beneath the surface. Together, we build structure, language, and strategy around your unique dynamic so you can stop guessing and start moving forward with confidence. This work is private, practical, and forward-focused — designed to create real, sustainable change.

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Looking forward to working with you!​

What Changes When You Do This Work

When you work with me, you don’t just “talk about sex.” You build skills.

 

You learn how to communicate desire without shame or defensiveness.

You learn how to rebuild confidence after disappointment.

You learn how to stay present instead of overthinking.

You learn how to navigate mismatched libidos without resentment.

You learn how to bring intention back into moments that have started to feel automatic.

 

My background is in performance psychology. I hold an MA in Sport Psychology, where I studied confidence, mental conditioning, and what happens when pressure meets vulnerability. The same mindset patterns that show up in sport — overthinking, self-criticism, fear of failure — show up in intimacy. And just like performance, intimacy can be trained.

 

In 2025, I wrote Guided: Why We All Need a Guide in the Bedroom because I believe something deeply: we hire coaches for fitness, for business, for mindset — yet when it comes to sex, one of the most vulnerable and influential parts of our lives, we’re expected to just figure it out. That approach leaves most couples stuck in repetition.

 

This work gives you structure. It gives you language. It gives you awareness. And from that foundation, desire becomes more natural, communication becomes easier, and intimacy becomes something you create — not something you hope for.

 

Coelle guides you in the moment. Coaching transforms the pattern.

Contact

If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start building the kind of intimacy you actually want, book a discovery call and let’s begin.

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