Tips & Tools

When it comes to deepening connection and enhancing closeness, sometimes the usual date nights and conversations just don’t cut it. We all want to feel more connected, more understood, and more in tune with our partner. That’s where relationship intimacy tools come in.

There's a question that creates anxiety for many couples: how many orgasms are supposed to happen during sex? Here's what research shows about actual orgasm frequency, why the gender gap exists, and what really predicts sexual satisfaction beyond orgasm counts.

At the end of the day, intimacy apps are about more than just technology. They’re about creating space for connection, curiosity, and care. If you’ve been feeling stuck or distant, these apps offer a gentle nudge toward rediscovering what makes your relationship special.

Cock rings generate curiosity and confusion—what do they actually do, how do you use them safely, and are they worth trying? Here's honest, practical information about cock rings, including realistic benefits, safety considerations, and how to decide if they're right for you.

Doggy style appears constantly in porn and is positioned as a must-do position, but for many couples it feels physically awkward or uncomfortable in practice. Here's how to make doggy style actually feel good through modifications, angle adjustments, and techniques that work for real bodies.

There's a sexual phenomenon that generates enormous curiosity and misinformation: female ejaculation, or squirting. Here's what it actually is, what it feels like for women who experience it, whether all women can do it, and most importantly—whether it matters for sexual satisfaction.

There's a dynamic that exists in most long-term relationships but rarely gets discussed: one partner almost always initiates sex, and the other almost always responds. Here's why this pattern develops, what damage it creates, and how couples can address it in ways that work for both partners.

There's a topic that generates enormous anxiety but gets discussed mostly in hushed tones: what do you do when the man has a smaller penis? Here's honest, practical information for couples—positions, techniques, and approaches that make sex incredibly satisfying, without shame.

One of the questions almost every couple asks after childbirth is: when can we have sex again? Here's honest information about what the recovery timeline actually looks like, what factors beyond healing time matter, and how to navigate the return to intimacy.

If you've ever searched for information about the G-spot, you've encountered conflicting information. Here's what the G-spot actually is, where it's located, how to explore it, and why individual variation matters more than any single technique.

There's a term that keeps appearing in conversations about Gen Z sexuality that leaves older generations confused: gooning. Here's what this practice of extended masturbation sessions actually is, why it's popular with younger people, and what it tells us about changing sexual culture.

There's a form of intimate exploration that generates intense curiosity and equally intense anxiety among couples: prostate stimulation. Here's honest, shame-free information about anatomy, technique, safety, and how couples can approach prostate play in ways that strengthen their relationship.

There's a category of intimate accessories that rarely gets discussed openly but that some couples credit with transforming their sex lives: penis sleeves. Here's honest, shame-free information about why some couples love them, what benefits they offer, and how to know if they might be right for your relationship.

You know you "should" have sex more often. So you agree to it, go through the motions, and you're glad when it's over. Or maybe you're always initiating and can tell your partner is just doing you a favor—not really there, not enjoying it. When sex becomes obligation, it poisons the connection it's meant to create. But the obligatory feeling isn't really about sex. It's a symptom of deeper issues in how you're relating, communicating, and understanding desire. Let's talk abou

Before kids, you had spontaneous sex and uninterrupted time together. Then kids arrived and everything changed. Now you're exhausted, touched-out, and your partner has become a co-parent first and lover second. The idea of sex feels like one more thing on an impossible to-do list. This is one of the most challenging transitions couples face. But it's possible to reignite passion after kids—not by returning to your pre-kid relationship, but by building something new that honor

You're having sex with your partner, and suddenly you're thinking about work emails, grocery lists, whether you look okay from this angle, or if your partner is actually enjoying this. Your body is there, but your mind is everywhere else. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Mental distraction during sex is one of the most common complaints—and one people are too embarrassed to admit. Here's what you need to know: a racing mind isn't a personal failing. It's normal. But

A sexual bucket list is a way to articulate desires, spark conversations, and give yourselves permission to dream about what your sex life could include. Creating one with your partner can be exciting and connecting—or awkward and challenging if your lists look different. When approached thoughtfully, it becomes more than a to-do list. It's a tool for deepening intimacy, understanding desires, and keeping curiosity alive in your relationship.

You have fantasies or desires that fall outside "standard" sex, but your partner is perfectly happy with vanilla sex and shows no interest in exploring what excites you. Can a vanilla partner become kinky? Can someone who's never expressed interest in kink learn to enjoy it? The answer is complicated and deeply individual. Some people can expand their sexual repertoire and discover new interests. Others have boundaries that won't change. Let's talk about what's possible, what

We're thrilled to announce the release of "Guided: Why We All Need a Guide in the Bedroom"—a groundbreaking book revealing how guided intimacy can transform your relationship from predictable to electric. After eight years of marriage and three kids, we'd fallen into maintenance mode. Then one Tuesday night, we discovered the transformative power of guided intimacy. This isn't about techniques—it's about presence, and guidance is what makes that presence possible.

There's a stark difference between couples who can talk openly about sex and couples who can't. Sex-positive couples aren't necessarily having more sex or wilder sex—they have a framework for approaching sexuality with openness, curiosity, and communication rather than shame or silence. The benefits extend far beyond the bedroom. When couples embrace sex-positivity together, they build stronger communication, deeper trust, and more satisfying relationships overall.