Books and Influences

The thinkers, researchers, and ideas shaping how we understand intimacy — and what we've actually put to use.

What David Deida Got Right: Re-Reading The Way of the Superior Man at 47

David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man is one of the most recommended — and most misunderstood — books on desire in long-term relationships. Here's an honest look at what he actually got right, what deserves scrutiny, and what it means for real couples.

Scott Schwertly

1 day ago7 min read